Why nice guys finish last

Jul 16, 2008

I'm just gonna start this out with the fact that I am currently drunk. Thought that might be important considering my topic.
But the truth is, I can't really answer that question. It's one that's haunted me for a while now. What is it about nice guys that turns a girl off? I mean you talk to a girl all night, ask questions about her, get to know her, carry her when she's too drunk to walk, put her in her roommate's car so she gets home safe, and never ever try to take advantage of that fact that she has no idea what is going on, and yet she'll never return a call from you.
Of course it goes without saying that this happened to me tonight and I fully expect that this girl won't even remember me. Not that this girl was really worth a date. She was cute but she was really occupied with trying to find drugs. And I'm not talking weed, I'm talking acid. She had a fever that even more cowbell couldn't cure.
Okay, that's extreme. She wasn't like in withdrawls or anything, I'm just not into the drug scene. She was cute, and sociable, both traits I look for. Yet, from the start it wasn't destined to be. Though I did get some hugs and a few kisses on the cheek, which is more than I've had since April. I should tell THAT story sometime. But that's a different time and place which is neither here nor there.
But seriously, I would really like to know why girls somehow end up going home with the guys they ultimately know are just trying to get into their pants, while the guys that would look after a girl, make sure she gets home safe, get left to bitch and moan on their blogs about how lonely they are.
Yes, this is THAT kind of post.
And on a final note, its 2 pm in China, why aren't my friends who are there for the Olympics on?