Things that are sexy

Mar 16, 2008 - 19:27 PM PST
So I had a bit of a drunken ramble a few nights ago to a friend and I had a revelation about what I consider really effing sexy.
There's this girl that I've been flirting with, but we're both plainly aware that nothing will come of it. It's a weird situation for sure. At the most I think we could only have a casual relationship. Anyway she has this way of looking completely seductive. I'm not sure if she knows she does it or not, she probably knows it, but she comes off as if she doesn't or at the very least that it is the easiest thing in the world. And that my friends is sexier than Aphrodite herself. The girl in question has really seductive eyes. Its incredible. Too bad nothing is likely to come of it.
It pretty much goes without question that confidence is sexy. I dated a girl once that was really uncomfortable with her body and unconfident and such and man was a buzz kill.
And at this point I've hit a road block. I can't think of anything else that I think is sexy. And I think that says something about me and I'm not quite sure its a good thing.
Ooh thanks go out to my friend Polina for pointing this one out to me. Intelligence. And I don't necessarily mean book smarts, but that helps. I mean like the girl has to have common sense, and be smart enough to like some things that others won't and not care that its not mainstream.
And I'm stuck again....this kinda sucks. I mean sure I haven't had the most experience sexually but I think I should be able to do better than this. Crap this is gonna keep me up all night.

Addendum: (props to my friend Julius for this)
Being comfortable with your own body. I hate, and I mean I HATE, having to do the whole "You're not fat" argument. You want to ruin my mood, there's a quick route. I would never ever date a girl that I wasn't physically attracted to in some physical way. I'm not shallow or anything, but it's important to me. But seriously no only is it annoying when a girl does the whole "I think I'm fat" thing, it's oh so very sexy when a girl is completely comfortable with her body no matter what body type she has. Good examples would be Queen Latifa and that big girl from Grey's Anatomy. I'm attracted to both of those women because they at least appear to be comfortable with their bodies. If you stuck two girls in front of me and one of them looked like Kristen Bell but constantly talked about how she wasn't okay with her body, and a girl that looked like Britney Spears at the VMA's but was totally cool with her body, I'd take the Spears look alike. Seriously, it makes THAT big of a difference.

Things that are sexy

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Jun 18, 2008 - 08:15 AM

dalton on
pretty cool. i wrote about the world in a drunken ramble one time