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metafizzicaluv

this is brilliant. your theater training shows through. at times this plays like a monologue and i think this piece could be performed just as it is. your own voice shows through and even though it's in the third person, we know you're asking these questions for yourself. the title gives us a hint of that. your question about 'what if you never find that person' i think dovetails with the question of why is there pain and suffering in the world. i believe in destiny and that it knows what's right. so if it chooses for us what we perceive as a painful path, then it must have a good reason. the path of love and togetherness, after all, could end up being the most painful. love is not without pain. many people find happiness though. more than 50%. at my age, i could still tolerate a few more years of waiting. so i think you have a solid decade before you should begin to start worrying seriously about this. enjoy that freedom.

unum

Hmmm... the question that plagues us all.

jadebug

I've heard similar things....hmmmm I'm a bit of a screw-up in relationships so I'm not the best person to talk to...I think I may have intimacy issues, long story. I agree w/ you in sooo many points....marriage is forever, it takes time to figure out who that special person is? I don't think it should be a rushed process and that we should all take out time maybe we can make that divorce rate lower....hmmmm or maybe not, the world doesn't always work out the way we want it to...hope all is well!!! Love your blogs BTW...thanks for sharing your thoughts! :)