Dear Jenny,

I just watched your blog, don't "fold" just get delt another hand. If the dealer aint given you the right cards, you have to take them. Sounds a little drastic and cliche i know, but seriouslt.

I took up a hobby, and made it a passion. I didn't have any friends in school, i was new i didn't know anybody. I took up DJing, and now at the age of 26, I can definetly tell you that if I didn't take up my time with something to distract me from the hard times, then i'd be a VERY lonely person. You have a talent, work on making that an obsession. This way if you meet someone with that same obsession and vision, then you'll almost never run out of things to talk about.

About being single, TELL ME ABOUT IT!! At this age, most of my friends are in serious relationships, or are already engaged or married. Some cases, already had kids!!!! AHHH!! Here I am, single for almost 3 years right now, but you know what?? I wouldn't have it any other way. I am damn happy with what I do, what i'm passionate about, and my freedom. Plus, being into music, i'm sure you can understand this; I take out my life on my music. Granted, I don't play a "traditional" instrument, but the turntables give me a creative outlet that takes me to another place. My past time is making beats, and remixing, and "wowing" audiences with my creativity for 'shakin their booty' but theres WAAAAY more mixes that are just for me, that I never play. Those are like, private outlets for me to just flow with myself (Wow, that makes no sense, lololol) I dunno, sometimes I just kinda close my eyes (Well, actually just stare in space) and work the turntables and i'll just feel good, like I am good for something... Wow, that was kinda deep.

aNYwho, so thats my suggestion and wisdom, wish you good luck

-Schmidty