christians thought everything shouldnt be about allah...look where that got em...

i agree with you. I think this society has set up people to move too quickly. Sadly younger and younger girls and boys are being pressured into growing up too quickly. And as for "don't settle for anything less than you deserve" you definitely shouldn't. I think that shows a huge amount of self respect that a lot of people don't have. Good for you.

I'm totally with you on this and as a guy it tends to make you a bit more of an out cast and a freak among other guys. But it is frustrating and rather sad to see how the world has changed and not really for the better on this issue.