MaddHatter | North Chicago, IL  • United States , Age 22

Help me Understand...



Mar 14, 2008 - 06:54 AM PST

Okay, normally I would do this on the webcam, but I'm not feeling all that good at the time. I'm having a hard time understanding something. My mother. Me and my mom don't have a good relationship, but yesterday really just took the cake. I mean, she really made me feel like a piece of crap. I was already sick (still a little sick), and so I told her to call grandma and tell her that she needed to take me to hospital because, I was throwing up everything that I would eat, I was weak, dizzy, and everything. The thing that surprised me, was when she said she wasn't going to call her. I was like WHAT?! That really took me for a loop. She kept saying that she's sick of me being sick, and having to spend money on my medication and stuff, but the funny thing about that, she never spent any money on any medication that I needed. Getting back to the point...She ended up NOT calling my grandma, and so I am left in the t.v. room just suffering basically until my grandma gets home. She didn't take me to the hospital (because she's a nurse, and knows what to do), but when I told her that mom wouldn't call her, my grandma was furious. It's really sad, that my grandma has done WAAAY more than my mom. You could always say my grandma is my mom, and my mom is more like my sister. I don't know what to think of my mom anymore.

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Mar 14, 2008 - 17:48 PM
i don't know what to say really, sometimes my mom is like that especially when she's stressed. i know i'm younger than you and my advice might not help you because it's pretty average and usual advice, but... have you ever talked to your mom and told her how she makes you feel? or asked her why she treats you the way she does? maybe you know why, but usually with my mom, i don't know why and when i get too upset and say something her, she usually backs off for a little while and thinks. but she never says sorry, because it would kill her to say sorry. i guess you have every reason to be upset, i mean, just because she gave birth to you, doesn't mean she's your mother (that's not meant to be offensive) because maybe you're right, you could always say your grandma is your mom.

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