Life...

Mar 14, 2008 - 22:00 PM PST

in life we go through many obstacles. some are to express how we feel about someone, express how we dont feel about someone. other are to learn to love not just one person, but many; learn to be friends with many people along the way; learn to fall in love and how to fall out of love. in life we also have to go through moving, learning that you could have been with the person you love, but you moved away, learning that love comes at a price. life is given to us to live to the fullest everyday that we are breathing. even those who are lying the hospital, are living their life to the fullest because they live through the people that care about them. we take many things for granted in this generation because we have laptops, ipods, tvs, cell phones. each day we take this all for granted. people do not know what love really means in this generation, because we use that word for everything. sometimes, just liking someone can be enough. we may take a lot of things for granted, but life should not be taken for granted; love should not be taken for granted; and nothing you do should ever be taken for granted. everyday people are born and people die. that is either depressing or uplifting. it all depends on how you think. personally i think it is not depressing, because when someone is born their life begins, but when someone dies their physical body dies, but their soul. their sould never dies because it lives in the people who love and care for them, the people that were there whenever they needed help. so life should never be taken for granted. we learn many things in life; love, hate, anger, sadness, happiness, broken heart, depression, sickness, confusion, disappointment, frustration, hopefulness, jealous, lonely, mad, miserable, scared, strong, and worried. what is life if it doesnt offer us times to over come fears, or go through obstacles. being far away from someone phsically, doesnt mean you are far away from that someone in your heart. when you put your mind to something, usually it happens. if it does not happen, then its not meant to happen. it may be depressing, but at least its true. when you love someone trust comes with loving someone. you love someone, you have to trust them. without trust, we would all be lost. without the truth, we would all be certainly living alone. the truth hurts, expecially when the truth is not something you want. the truth is usually the right thing. when something hurts, its usually right. when something gets scary or not understandable, its usually right. when something is right, you will know in your heart, that it is the right thing to do. sometimes people find out what the right thing is to do, but it is already too late to do the right thing. so when you find out what the right thing is to do about a situation, do the right thing, becuase that thing certainly wont last forever. nothing lasts forever, we hear that everyday. in some ways it is true, in others it is a lie. people say that nothing lasts forever, i think they are wrong. certain things last forever, if you let them. love, is one of the things people say does not last forever. well love does last forever, it just depends if the people in love act on their feelings, or dont act on their feelings, it depends if the two people in love decide that their love will last forever, then it certainly will last forever. forever is a long time. for something to last a long time, it has to be stronger than anything else that comes by. love is a hard thing to keep forever, especially since we take love for granted. some people thing that if someone loves them that they dont have to try anymore, but thats where they are wrong. when someone loves you, its not because you were trying, its because of who you are. people think that if something better comes along, you should grab it and never let go. well there will always be better things, newer things. but its your choice on wheather or not you choose to grab the better and newer thing, or to keep the great thing that you have already. making choices is the hardest thing people will ever have to do. you make a choice as to be with someone, or not. to act on something or not. to put your mind to something and not let go of that sight or just the opposite. once someone is gone. they are not coming back. when someone leaves. they might come back. sometimes when people leave they are scared of the things that could come or tired of the things that are there. if someone makes the choice to leave, then the choice to come back, would depend on what are they coming back to. choices are made everyday, whether we like it or not. we always have to make choices that are hard. we make choices that are extremely easy. most of all the choices we make or in some cases do not want to make, will most likely hurt someone either way we choose. some people take a long time to make a choice and some people dont take time to make a choice. the people that take the time to think about the choice, usually they make the right choice. the people that dont take the time to make a choice, usually end up making the wrong choice. but what about if you think about that choice and it turns out you made the wrong choice, then you have to live and learn from that choice. that is how we grow. most importantly, that is the most important thing we learn from in life, is our own mistakes. we can learn from others mistakes. but we learn a whole lot more when we learn from mistakes that we make as a person. making mistakes can be either good or bad. it depends on how the mistake is looked at. somethings are good and somethings are bad. well thats usually what it is, either good or bad. theres no middle because we can either learn from the bad or improve the good. why do people get married, if in the end they just end up divorced? because when they got married they loved each other enough to take that risk. but then somewhere along the journey, the feelings or people changed. we all change, with inevitably changes our feelings about somethings or someone. people have the choice to change their feelings and we have the choice to change who we are. again that choice may cause complications and conflicts but it might be the best decision you ever made. if someone takes a risk, they are excepting that it is not perfect. that something might just go wrong down the road. but they dont care about the things that might or might not go wrong, they care about the things that are good and great in taking that risk. taking risks is a good thing. each day we take a risk whether we know it or not. the risk we all take is getting up in the morning. because when we get up we are taking the risk that they day will bring good surprises or bad surprises. in life we all have obstacles to overcome. we overcome obstacles, by making mistakes and learning from the mistakes we make. we also overcome obstacles by taking risks and having the courage to accept that something bad might go wrong or something good. but in the end we all have obstacles to overcome. it depends on how we overcome those obstacles and which path we take to overcome those obstacles. when you start something, you have to finish it. when you start a journey, you have to eventually finish it or go home. when you start on a path, you have to keep on that path. that is a choice in itself. you choose to start that path and you have to make the choice to keep on that path and not stray from what you choose. life is the most precious gift we are given. so dont take the most precious gift you could ever get, for granted. because if you do, you are certainly making the wrong choice.