blckbird | New York, NY  • United States , Age 15

who are boys?



Jan 15, 2008 - 20:08 PM PST

So i am at the age where boy and girl relationships aren't black and white. You see, now boys are more then just people who sometimes have a crush on you, whatever that means! They are people you might get nervous around and start to show off what little boobs you have. They confuse me. I go to a really small school. there are 28 kids in my grade and 8 boys in all. actually, most of them are gay (the reason i am so amused by homosexuals) and the rest are just not right. some a good looking, but i need to get to know what's really out there. i feel so contained and ignorant! it is really up to me to get off my lazy ass and find some guys, or some more friends, but how do u start? i don't even know what im looking for. basically, ive been waiting for the right guy to come along and say "hey chick, wanna see a movie?" but thats not really gonna happen if i keep protecting myself, right?


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Jan 24, 2008 - 20:35 PM
ha ha. it depends on what you want in a guy. personally i think you shouldnt start dating until youre out of highschool, but my ideals dont align with society. if you do start dating you have to understand what it is that you want. its ok if you dont, most people only ever figure out what it is they dont want and go from there. i think the guys of our generation need to step up to the plate and take a chance on asking a girl out once in a while. call me old fashioned but men should be men. not that im saying women cant make the first move, thats all good and females should have the power of initiative but we shouldnt need to be making all the plans and taking all the risks. open yourself up a little and get to know a guy better as friends first. it usually works out better than way. but youre young, you have plenty of time. i dont mean to belittle you b/c of your age, b/c i know what its like, i was there once. dont give in to what is expected of you from everyone around you. stay classy.

Jan 15, 2008 - 22:16 PM
OMG! This blog is scary. It sounds like the exact same thing I am going through minus the gay guys. My class has thirty people in it and like 10 guys. All of them are either pervs, have a girlfriend, or just not interesting to me. I am the type of person who sits back and waits for someone to sweep me off my feet( which is probably why i have never had a boyfriend). I am not daring or flirtatious. Even though i am not really the best person to give advice i think you should take a chance with one. you never know what could happen.

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