amie0610 | Glassboro, NJ  • United States , Age 23

XY Revolution



Feb 29, 2008 - 21:44 PM PST

Is anyone else perturbed by society today?

I feel old having formed the question, however still curious of the answer.

I understand that we (collectively as peoples) are as technologically advanced as ever before. I know that we have taken a liking to achieving excellence in what we do and what we have. But, does anyone else feel like we're just building ourselves up for ultimate destruction? We've placed our values on other things. Our values once regarding family, friendships, common conversation, helping one another--they all seem to be distant reminders of a past preciousness. A preciousness, I feel we're stepping further and further away from with each passing day of one way conversations, violent commercials, children cursing their parents off and money hungry business men who go to bed soundly after cheating others out of their fair dues. When did we as a collective whole decide that a life of suspicion, deceit and hate would be a better future investment than truth, trust and love? After all, isn't it easier to love thy neighbor rather than hate (envy) them?

I fear that maybe the X and Y generation has become too lazy or fearful to challenge the inevitable doom of a failing culture. I also wonder if maybe our generations been bombarded with causes as if they were commercials, and fearful of starting a new cause-so why not call this a revolution, Revolution XY.

I think we collectively need to begin to challenge ourselves foremost. Is it okay that we're using sex to sell anything from cars to flavored water? Is it acceptable that sexuality is so apparent in our culture that children, that once possessed purity are bombarded with sexual images?

It's not just sexual material, its global warming that we're still questionable about. It's the violence that maybe we're surrounding ourselves with that is the ultimate motivation of school and mall shootings. It's the desire for more materialistic items like a new Maserati or Ferrari, instead of investing the money into music or art programs in schools. It's even the everyday conversations we have, or shall I say lack having with one another. There's seldom times when people speak to others, unless of course under the influence of alcohol. When did we wake up and decide that talking to one another and meeting new people was so horrible? More importantly, when did we decide to stop listening to another? Why now does it seem like the worlds flowing in a one way direction, that direction is better known as "Me". It seems like when we finally do engage in awkward, undesirable, dreaded conversation we're only out for ourselves. I want you to listen to ME, and give ME advice, but I don't know what to listen to your problems. I don't want to listen to your issues.

There's beauty all around us and there's amazing people with blinding allure, we just need to take the challenge of breaking away from this destructive lifestyle of self involvement.

I fear if we don't begin to seek one another and make a difference, we're just inevitably guaranteeing our own destruction as a community.


Title: XY Revolution
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Mar 13, 2008 - 15:30 PM
This is great. My boyfriend and i ahve conversations like this all the time. I'm 28 and he's 40, so there's a big age gap there. but we still believe in all that used to be held in high regards, like family and friends and love and trust. i totally agree with everything that you said. i think that alot of us gave up. it's not that we're destroying society. it's that society has been going downhill for awhile and we just let it fall. we got so tired of everyone saying that we couldn't make a difference, that we isolated ourselves just so that we didn't have to hear it or see it anymore. and alot of our generations behavior stems from our parents. you can blame violence in video games or tv or movies or sex everywhere, but it all stems back to our parents teaching us what was real and what was imaginary. what's right and wrong. and i think the parents of this new generation just gave in because they were either too old and tired or too young and inexpierenced. i can go on and on, this topic really gets to me. thank you for putting it out there. it's nice to see that there are others that think about these topic too!

Mar 01, 2008 - 12:54 PM
I thought that was a wonderful piece, I particularly connected to your comment about children. I'm 18 and its so sad to see my younger cousins of 7 or 8 who know the provocative dance steps better than I do. As tired as this idea is, I do believe that TV is the root of this, specifically kids access to it. With the consumer driven capitalistic world we live in, parents simply do not have the time anymore to really invest in their children's lives as much.

I strongly think the X and Y generation realise the cesspit our world is becoming. We just haven't realized that we can change the (supposed) inevitable. Thanks for the insight!

Mar 01, 2008 - 07:36 AM
I happen to agree with pretty much all of this, except for your comments on sexual material. Its not that they are bombarded, its that the children are not given the tools to handle the bombardment. Take for example, Sweden, which has sex-ed in the earliest grades, which isn't just, "This is a penis, and these are breasts." Its also about handling it maturely, and Sweden has one of the lowest teenage pregnancy rates in the world.

A lot of the problems in society, I feel, stem from hyper-capitalism. We feel we have to consume, we have to make as much profit as possible from each person, no matter what. And its wrecking us. Take a look at my post called Enmeshed gears in my portfolio.

Talk to you later!

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